Yeah, I’m in this whole “why are you telling me your problems if you’re not looking for solutions” gang while I also partake in the “your solutions do not please me, shut up and listen” team.
Anywho, I take a big glup of “let’s shut up and concentrate” drink, and then say “what can I do to help?”. Often the person that is telling me their problems is happy enough with this question.
Yeah, I’m in this whole “why are you telling me your problems if you’re not looking for solutions” gang while I also partake in the “your solutions do not please me, shut up and listen” team.
Anywho, I take a big glup of “let’s shut up and concentrate” drink, and then say “what can I do to help?”. Often the person that is telling me their problems is happy enough with this question.