• Flamekebab@piefed.social
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    4 months ago

    Despite all the awfulness, it can be kinda nice to be amongst a lot of humans celebrating something.

    I mean, I’m not doing it, but it’s not all bad.

  • BradleyUffner@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    I usually get myself so distracted by something that I don’t even realize the new year has started until about 30 minutes past midnight. I didn’t know why I bother stay up any more.

  • Aljernon@lemmy.today
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    4 months ago

    The last time I went to a bar on New Year Eve, I paid 20 bucks to get in, bought my first drink and started goofy dancing to a song that came on the radio. Then I got thrown out for being intoxicated.

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    4 months ago

    Staying at home myself, but I think the trick is to enjoy the moments between those frames.

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      If you don’t enjoy the moments in those frames, don’t go to some overcrowded place. There are no moments in between.

      A lot of people enjoy it. I can’t understand them, so I stick to small crowds.

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        The moments in between are usually comprised of dissociation and wishing I was anywhere else. The crowd has already sapped me of any energy I would’ve used to yell over the music while talking to yelling at friends.

  • confusedbytheBasics@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    I walked to the bar. Accepted a free pour of sparkling wine. Counted down to midnight. Sang Auld Lang Syne. Drank my free wine. Hugged some strangers. Threw $5 in the tip jar. Walked home watching fireworks.

    It’s a pretty fun holiday if you do it like me.

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    4 months ago

    My admittedly boring method:

    • stay home

    • do stuff, maybe video games

    • go to sleep whenever I feel like it

    • wake up at the normal time

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      4 months ago

      I used to stay up when I was younger just to witness the year changing, but now I’m old and just go to bed. It will be there in the morning.

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      4 months ago

      I’ve found that, at least for me, I need to do social things, amazing things, and ceremony around it is also fine. Otherwise, I lose track of time and dark thoughts happen.

      I encourage all to celebrate holidays or special events as much as you can, while you can. Every morning you wake up and can see and hear and smell and taste and feel and think. And if you’re short somewhere in that list, you probably already understand what I’m talking about. Life is short and a lot of people want yours to be shitty. Don’t let them win.

      That being said, if you like playing videogames, don’t let the people who don’t appreciate that to make you feel like that isn’t quality time.

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    4 months ago

    Always surprising to me that people still do this. It’s always a scam and everyone goes home just slightly pissed off.

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    4 months ago

    I’ve never been out on new year’s, I’ve always been in my home or a friend’s or family member’s. Oh, tell a lie, on the millennium I was at church.