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Cake day: July 3rd, 2023

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  • This goes right back to thinking that you’re going to be a different person in the future.

    • When I am old enough to drive
    • When I am an adult
    • When I get that dream job
    • When I get that cool car
    • When I get that dope house
    • When I find the perfect partner
    • When I get married
    • When I have a beautiful family
    • When I can finally retire

    You’re still gonna be the same person. There’s no dividing line. You are always going to be the entity that you are right this second. Tomorrow you will be the same human being, just with 1 less day to live. In 20 years from now you’ll still be the same human being. But with 20 years less to live. Did you use those 20 years wisely?

    If you don’t love yourself now, you won’t love yourself in the future. Work on yourself. Learn to love all the good things about yourself, right now. If there are things you can improve about yourself, then work on those things.









  • Addicted to alcohol: Stop drinking. You can’t control an addiction so you have to completely stop.

    Addicted to cigarettes: Stop smoking. You can’t control an addiction so you have to completely stop.

    Addicted to crack: Stop smoking crack. You can’t control an addiction so you have to completely stop.

    Addicted to food: Must be your fault for being weak-willed. Just don’t consume so much of that thing that you’re addicted to. You can control your addiction. Just stop being a loser…

    The literal solution to every addiction is stop it, cold turkey. One Day At A Time. But you can’t stop eating food. You’ll die.

    So it’s as if an alcoholic has to constantly have just a little alcohol. Or a crackhead has to keep smoking crack, but only every once in a while. No problem, just control yourself…

    I’m sure telling people that they’re pieces of shit for eating food will fix the problem, eventually. We just have to try a little harder.



  • I only have anecdotal evidence of what homeschooled people are like. I’m sure there’s a ton of nuance and some homeschooled children are probably taught by extremely intelligent, capable parents and some homeschooled children are probably taught by people who are barely even qualified to be a parent much less a teacher.

    That being said… Every homeschooled person I’ve ever met has been what can only be described as “off”. These people become adults with very skewed social skills and even worse, their sense of humor is completely stunted. I think a well-rounded person needs to be exposed to the rest of the world and the people in it starting from kindergarten, and homeschooling cannot reproduce that.




  • DJKJuicy@sh.itjust.workstoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldMe time is crucial time
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    Plan your “free” time.

    If couchmaxxing is important to you, put that time on your calendar. Don’t call it “free time” when you budget for it. Call it a “recharge interval” or something else that denotes how important it is.

    There’s no such thing as free time. We’re all granted a finite number of hours in our life. Use them wisely. Time to chill is important for mental health and should be treated as such.