The writers of “The Ethical Slut” advocate for a very broad definition of having sex. They even have a (tongue-in-cheek) bit where they say that by reading the book, you and the authors are engaging in a form of having sex.
I’m not sure I totally agree with going that far, but I do think a broad definition is better.
I have never fucked a woman but I fucked my first man at 29. Does that make me virgin?
The writers of “The Ethical Slut” advocate for a very broad definition of having sex. They even have a (tongue-in-cheek) bit where they say that by reading the book, you and the authors are engaging in a form of having sex.
I’m not sure I totally agree with going that far, but I do think a broad definition is better.
yeah sex isn’t really a defined thing, so anything can count as it (or not)
I’ll take it in another direction from the other responses and just say: people give too much of a fuck about this idea of virginity.
yeah
Nah any sex is losing your virginity
I’d say as long as it involves another person it counts.
Another live person, who consents.
Is “gold star” dude a thing, or do only women get that label?