• MutilationWave@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Incels are on the rise, both genders. Where do they fit in your 100%? We’re seeing the birth of hikkikomori culture.

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      If I had to guess based on my understanding of attachment theory, it could be the anxious attachment, the avoidant, or the disorganized (which has traits of both, and is rare). In any case it’s clearly the insecure attachment styles.

      Based on the “incel” description itself though, I don’t think you have enough information to guess either. An individual hokkikomori is clearly more avoidant than anything though, as they don’t seek or hold relationships with others as valuable.

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          Wait I’m confused - you asked where they fit in the 100%. I gave you my best guess.

          What does that have to do with spreadsheets?

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            1 year ago

            What do incels and Excel have in common?

            They both wrongly assume somethings a date when it’s not!