So like, let me preface this by saying I’m not entirely sure I even am demi. I do find people attractive, but not in the “man, I want to have sex with them” kind of way. That requires at least a friendship first. That’s kinda besides the point of my question though!
Say you’ve decided that you want to find a new play partner. As a demi, how would you go about finding one? Dating apps seem to focus on either one-night stands or long term romance. Finding a friend-with-benefits seems a lot harder?
I posted a very similar question on here recently. I would have to say, for me, the biggest hurdle in finding a play partner would be just finding a group/scene where folks are somewhat likely to be open to dating. But of course as a demisexual this still excludes dating apps and other such scenarios more geared towards immediately quenching a thirst.
I like the general suggestion that was given on my post: Find fun things to do as a way of meeting people. It eases the pressure, and one is more likely to be open to connecting when already having fun 😀