Dr. Wesker@lemmy.sdf.orgM to Everyday Bingo@lemmy.sdf.orgEnglish · edit-27 days agoYou need to break eye contact during a conversation with someone, and when you do you unintentionally look at their crotch or boobs, and then wonder if they noticedmessage-squaremessage-square7fedilinkarrow-up113arrow-down11
arrow-up112arrow-down1message-squareYou need to break eye contact during a conversation with someone, and when you do you unintentionally look at their crotch or boobs, and then wonder if they noticedDr. Wesker@lemmy.sdf.orgM to Everyday Bingo@lemmy.sdf.orgEnglish · edit-27 days agomessage-square7fedilink
minus-squarevacuumflower@lemmy.sdf.orglinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·6 days agoThe experience of much of my life, until I learned that you can forget shame and look at their shoulders and hands and neck and hair, and that’d be both socially acceptable and pleasant. I thought non-autistic people learn this before puberty.
minus-squareDr. Wesker@lemmy.sdf.orgOPMlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·6 days agoI don’t necessarily plan to look at their bits, it’s just the result of a glance in a random direction.
minus-squarevacuumflower@lemmy.sdf.orglinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·6 days agoExactly. While you should plan to look at bits no less aesthetically pleasing, but with no danger involved whatsoever.
The experience of much of my life, until I learned that you can forget shame and look at their shoulders and hands and neck and hair, and that’d be both socially acceptable and pleasant. I thought non-autistic people learn this before puberty.
I don’t necessarily plan to look at their bits, it’s just the result of a glance in a random direction.
Exactly. While you should plan to look at bits no less aesthetically pleasing, but with no danger involved whatsoever.