I think you have a good point and have changed my mind somewhat. However, since there would be more willing participants, coercion would probably not be worth it for her. It’s a needless risk. A woman who wants to be in control and worshipped can find those means easily without coercion. Unless she was going to be abusive just for shits and giggles, why even bother with so many fish in the sea. She doesn’t need to.