• golden@sh.itjust.works
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    2 days ago

    Being confronted and having to think about or explain your bigotry is the only way they can learn.

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      1 day ago

      In my opinion, shaming people for bigoted opinions can be effective and even necessary at times, but only serves to change people’s behavior.

      I’ve found that the main thing that changes people’s thoughts or values are measured explanations or evidence to the contrary.

      • starelfsc2@sh.itjust.works
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        7 hours ago

        Wasn’t there a meme post about how people don’t change their opinions when presented with facts? I think not even explanations, for me it was listening to someone I trusted talk to someone about their experiences. I think it’s often just people not imagining themselves as the other person and how they would feel experiencing all that, or just not knowing what the average woman deals with day to day.