Well this is one thing that’s different in Florida. You can’t get us to dress up. Restaurants though? Sometimes the fancy ones are so good!

I do love to cook so we are eating mostly at home but I consider it “putting in effort” when my husband takes me out for supper, that seems like a normal thing to think? Especially if I thought it wasn’t his preference. They probably did find you attractive in your casual wear (otherwise would have swiped left or whatever the equivalent is) but wanted to acknowledge your effort in dressing up.