He started acting weird and dry, then less dry today, and was being very nice and almost like his typical self, then he ghosted me and blocked me on all social medias. What the hell???

  • deadbeef79000@lemmy.nzEnglish
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    2 months ago

    Let’s assume you did do something that triggered his actions. Whatever it was, his action was to ghost you not talk to you about it.

    You’ve had an early glimpse into his conflict resolution capacity.

    So if you had a relationship, some time down the line you’d have had a conflict, probably with the same result, with considerable more invested in the relationship.

    Let’s now assume you didn’t do anything to trigger his behavior, something else did. Same actions, same observation, but he might ‘come back’ when whatever the problem is has resolved.

    Finally let’s assume he’s just a jerk. Then there’s no problem, it sucks to feel this way, but it’s the better outcome.