I’ve had eras of my life like that. I thought I was being antisocial, but it turned out the people I was surrounded with were just exhaustingly petty. Then my situation changed who I had surrounding me, and suddenly I was a social butterfly.

It is wise to look inward, and work on ourselves, because we are the only ones we can change.

But it is also wise to give ourselves a break, because it might just be the situation that sucks.