Hi!

As the title says, please, as I’m looking for some inspiration :)

I’ve been looking to get some clothes for a while, but it’s a bit tricky. Tyrannical country, so I can’t try them on, and in most places I won’t be able to return them if they don’t fit/I don’t like them. So I wanna be a bit careful about what I buy.

I took some of my measurements of hips, waist and bust and hope that’s enough. But what to buy if I can’t buy it all? 🤑

Underwear shouldn’t be an issue, but the rest? Blazer? Blouse? Or a summer dress? I don’t even know much about women’s clothes even though I bought full outfits of my choice twice before (before realising my gender identity).

On the one hand, I feel it is my civic duty to get thigh-highs and that similar fabric to cover the the hands/arms, with a mini skirt and short top, taking a picture of my libreboot thinkpad with neofetch running. 😅

I also think what that some of what I’ll enjoy myself in now will change when/if I transition more, and vice versa. So I don’t know. Everything is on the table, but mostly I want something badass. :)

Thanks for reading and any help :)

  • adhd_traco@piefed.socialOPEnglish
    5·
    5 days ago

    Damn, yeah ideas like this, and wearing the clothes only at home is pretty much what’s on my mind, too.

    I also had no idea about fashion back then so I had to experiment quite a bit and it took me a few years to really understand what looks good on me and what doesn’t.

    x.x I’m gonna be extra friendly to my woman friends, so they will help me with make-up and stuff :)

    Also happy to hear you had fun and didn’t regret it.

    • theresa (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
      5·
      5 days ago

      Honestly I just went through the bestsellers on shein and bought what I was interested in. Obviously I wouldn’t recommend buying stuff there now, back then I just didn’t care and it was cheap.