• Zamboni_Driver@lemmy.ca
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    2 days ago

    You can be who ever you want, I don’t believe you though.

    I don’t believe that anyone on the internet is who they say they are.

    It’s not really bothering me, you can be you, or be the character you’re playing or whatever, it’s all good.

    If you want to be believed though, you would need to prove it in some way. And no I don’t mean by posting nudes or lewd content, it’s an easy enough thing to provide evidence for in a sfw way that protects your privacy.

    Again, it’s not important that you prove it, but you won’t be believed until you do. Your posts are changing from being funny memes to being semi aggressive taunts about your identity. It seems like for you the question of your identity is a game for you and something that you’re using for attention. You can have whatever identity you want to have, but maybe try to stick to being funny and interesting and not whatever this new dynamic is.

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      If OP is who she says she is, she’s better off not proving who she is. Probably best for a young woman to not put a face to her name online if she’s making a bunch of sexual posts. People can be nasty.

      At the end of the day it doesn’t really matter if she’s actually a woman or not, since it’s highly unlikely any of us is meeting her in person ever.

    • Grail@multiverse.soulism.net
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      Your posts are changing from being funny memes to being semi aggressive taunts about your identity. It seems like for you the question of your identity is a game for you and something that you’re using for attention

      Alternative hypothesis: People get angry when you call them liars, and people yell when they get angry.

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      2 days ago

      What kind of incel ass reaction is this to a woman posting a meme that basically says “You can give me positive feedback but I am not obliged to fuck you”?

      Holy fuck dude…

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      OK but like, what does it matter? Why does to matter who or what @violet08 is? At the end of the day it’s a bit, and a funny one when rubes like you keep getting so invested in it that you write essays like this. It’s like a comedic blacklight for showing how people feel about women.

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      2 days ago

      If I had a nickel for every time someone wrote a relatively long comment analyzing my online behavior on here, I’d have two nickels. Which isn’t a lot, but it’s weird that it happened twice.

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        It’s weird that someone replied to your post seeking attention about your identity? Only one of my sentences analyzed your behavior. The rest were a response to your post from the point of view of the average person.

        Now it just seems like you’re absolutely trolling if you’re going to try to mock people who reply.

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          It’s funny, comments like yours are exactly what I had in mind when I made this post in the first place. People can go wild with assumptions about my identity, but if I play into it for fun, suddenly I’m “seeking attention”? When men post like I do, people interact with the content; but when a woman posts, her entire behavior gets dissected and assumptions are made just to discredit her, no matter how harmless the content is.

          And I wasn’t mocking anyone.

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            Yes, this is attention seeking behavior lol. You are making posts about yourself, about what you’re up to each day, about opinions that you imagine people have of you.

            You have created this strawman argument that anyone questioning that you are who you are wants you to post nudes or something.

            You know what you’re doing, lol, no need to be evasive about it.

            This is the internet, we are all bots here. There is no such thing as identity.

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              Calling it “attention-seeking behavior” ignores the fact that this is just my posting style. You can go all the way back in my post history where I explicitly say I have a stream-of-consciousness approach: something crosses my mind, I look through my Insta saves for a meme that fits, and I share it.

              Men never get asked to prove that they’re men or questioned like this.

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                Your posting style seeks attention. It is currently entertaining.

                “Men don’t get asked for the same reason as someone saying they habe a cat or dog as a pet gets asked, odds are high that is the case because most pets are cats or dogs and most people vocal about themselves on the internet happen to be men.”

                -Albert Einstein

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              You have created this strawman argument that anyone questioning that you are who you are

              I have a question. It’s about this part:

              questioning that you are who you are

              Why does this matter?

              You are somebody who believes that there is no such thing as identity on the Internet, so why even ask this question? What’s the point? What changes about life if this question goes unanswered?

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            Probably because it’s so rare, that it freaks men out. Please be mindful of us cavemen, who are afraid of things we have never seen before.

            You are scaring the cave people!

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          I’m sorry, but you’re being so obnoxious here. If you’re that upset why not just block a person and move on?

          It’s not even targeted at me and I’m getting annoyed