• Sylver@lemmy.worldEnglish
    2·
    11 months ago

    Sometimes I think it’s just me wanting to be hot and sexy. And, well, I think goth girls are hot and sexy.

  • Sharkwellington@lemmy.one
    2·
    11 months ago

    If I could push a button to change my sex I absolutely would, but I don’t have it in me to transition on the outside and deal with the societal consequences. So I just stick with androgyny as “close enough”.

    • metallic_z3r0@infosec.pub
      2·
      11 months ago

      I’m with you there, though I would push that button like every other day. I like being a guy, and I think I would like being a girl about half the time, though ideally I’d control two bodies simultaneously all the time.

        • Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone
          1·
          11 months ago

          It’s like when you are trans MtF, transitioning, but stay closeted and dressing like a male and going by male pronouns… Even while bodily changes take place. The idea being you can one day wake up and put on a dress and you’ll just be a girl and you can come out of the closet to… People who had the opportunity to notice these changes in you for a long time.

  • Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone
    0·
    11 months ago

    I’ve had this conversation! This is where a lot of tranaphobia came out of me. Like “yeah I wanna be a girl, but not trans - trans people are freaks. I’m not like them.” Fortunately, trans people have very good representation now.

    I was really lucky to have met so many great trans people at the perfect times… And it didn’t change much for me. It was, and still is, about accepting myself. So many conversations about it, yet none led to me doing anything about knowing I’m trans.