im 157cm (5′2) 26yo male i have been in a realationship for 3years and i did had success somewhat with girls. tho sometime I feel like i need to work very hard, harder than my tall friends. if im not on my top shape and lean i feel like im not enough, and given less chances with girls. im pretty muscular, and have an ok face, i also pretty nice to talk to and tbh i never had a first date which the girl didnt want to go to a second date with me. but the height a lot of times made some girls not even consider me, and tbh 157 cm is like shorter than 99% of guys. im thinking about doing it to get to 5′6 tho i also dont wanna be the guy who is known for doing limb lengthning surgery cause its like an insecure thing. im pretty lost tbh. need some outsiders perspective ty

  • niceguy@lemmy.worldOP
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    6 months ago

    I have tbh guys. my ex which i was with for 3 years left me a year ago. and since then i dated with another girl for like 4 dates but i just couldnt see myself with anyone else but my ex and since then im depressed, because i cant imagine my self dating and building a life with anyone else and im very lonely and missing her even now. when im depressed a lot of the times i have the wrong habit to blame it all on my height. idk why. i hope it will pass. thank you all for all your help i didnt thought my post will get so much traffic.