• exasperation@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    6 months ago

    There’s a quote in The Catcher in the Rye, attributed to Wilhelm Stekel:

    The mark of the immature man is that he wants to die nobly for a cause, while the mark of the mature man is that he wants to live humbly for one.

    In most cases, one can do a lot more aggregate good over a long period of time than in a flashy moment, and we should live our lives in recognition of that reality.

  • jjmoldy@lemmy.world
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    6 months ago

    ITT: People addicted to feeling miserable making any excuse they can for refusing to even attempt to improve their lives in any way.

    • ameancow@lemmy.world
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      6 months ago

      People are addicted to convenience and routine, not necessarily comfort or happiness.

      A lot of people have a hard time understanding this, so much so that they invent reasons for why they avoid change and empowerment. You may not realize that in your own brain, you’re going to feel really attached to predictable patterns, far more than you will get attached to new, happy experiences.

      The cognitive dissonance that this creates makes people do and say really funny things, or really dangerous things.

    • Manmoth@lemmy.ml
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      6 months ago

      Bingo. Even though eating at a deficit saves money and walking just requires shoes.

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    6 months ago

    It’s what makes Walter White a weak person. Even when his family needed him, he cowered when he had to face his ego, false pride and other vices.

    Knowing that you COULD become this badass, but choosing not to, for his family, while nobody else would ever believe that he could have, that’d be the mark of a hero.

  • Zythox@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    6 months ago

    Well, to be fair, they already said they would die for their family. All of the other things would just interfere with that.

  • Velypso@sh.itjust.works
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    6 months ago

    Damn, lemmy is cynical as fuck.

    This is a positive message half of you turned into an attack on yourselves.