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TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone to Trans Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 4 个月前

it's hard out here for transmascs

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it's hard out here for transmascs

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TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone to Trans Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 4 个月前
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  • Wintry@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    deleted by creator

  • riwo@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    damn, i didnt realise even trans spaces are hostile to trans mascs :< thats ass

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      IME trans spaces are kinda just low key hostile to men in general. Not in the way where everybody is hostile or anything, but if you pay attention you’ll notice that misandrists get away with a wild amount of shit slinging in trans spaces as compared to most other flavors of bigotry being policed quickly and harshly

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        My experience is that it’s generally worse when in the milieu of an institution (e.g. university, larger orgs) or anywhere power imbalance is structural. That there are more examples of good in independent spaces.

        I’m not much of a gender expressionist so maybe it doesn’t translate to a transmasc exp.

    • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      It’s more that many spaces lean heavily transfem, so it’s hard for transmascs to relate or feel represented

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        And sometimes the high prevalence of transfems in certain spaces leads to people accidentally doing things like she/her’ing everyone by default.

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          Lmao I’ve almost done this with my friends

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    gender affirming crippling loneliness

  • Sivecano@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    We need more representation for trans men ('cos they’re awesome)

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    I know a place in Oregon

    • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      no way?

      • untorquer@lemmy.world
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        Pretty good scene in Portland.

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    Not trans here, but please don’t become an incel, a transmasccel, or whatever!

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      You do know what the word involuntary means… right?

      • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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        one need not have sex to avoid being an incel, nor does having sex really change a person

  • Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world
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    Welcome to your new guy group, membership of 1. I’m off to the other side byeeeeee.

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    Why male in quotation marks. Just why.

    • Of the Air (cele/celes)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      Agreed, that seems wrong and misgendery.

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        No it’s referring to the “male loneliness epidemic”

        • Of the Air (cele/celes)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          Then why is only male in quotes?

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            The poster is a trans man and I think it’s them feeling validated as male, that’s how I read it

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              Do you mean the OP in this thread because if so we’re pretty sure that’s not the case.

              If you mean within the context of the pictures, sure.

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            Because there is a loneliness epidemic, but its not centred on males

            • Of the Air (cele/celes)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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              Thanks for explaining!

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          As if that was an experience only offered to women

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      I read it as emphasis (since the text is also all caps)

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