I don’t mean to add fuel to the fire with Gentry or anything but I can speak towards my experience with jellyfin here. When I started with jellyfin I didn’t know a lot about networking or even self hosting, I pretty much jumped in blind. Although it’s fair to say I am not new to technical concepts/troubleshooting so my experience is definitely going to be smoother than a non technical user.

For context I am using truenas scale to host jellyfin and I was able to install it, configure it, and get my library going on the first try and it was definitely under 20 minutes. Once I decided I wanted remote access to my library it wasn’t super crazy to figure out tail scale (maybe 30 minutes?) and have that available too. It might not have been under an hour total but coming from almost nothing as a newer user I didn’t really experience a lot of turbulence.

How strange! Been using truenas scale for a couple years now and this is the first I’m hearing about this issue. You have to re add your disks to the pool each time you power cycle??

My favorite thing about Lain is how each rewatch over the years I have walked away with something different

Sizing for a breast pump

Doesn’t abigail love caves and adventure?

I really enjoyed the demo but get what you mean by the anime-esque aesthetic being a bit jarring

Probably an homage since the manga is from the 80s and had a 90s anime adaptation https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cat's_Eye_(manga)

Looks like the hair is a little too close to the neck giving it a bumpy look.

I’m glad your ex is an ex. I believe it’s experiences like yours that highlights how sexism goes both ways. My heart goes out to you.