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Cake day: August 5th, 2023

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  • Amen.

    Nobody takes issue with the idea that people can’t own people. Until they’re in a relationship and they start thinking of their partner as their property.

    The insecurity around the all-or-nothing nature of monogamy creates all of the problems in monogamy.

    Plus: orgies. Like. What’s the point of living without orgies?

    Sex with one person, forever, no group sex, incessant discussions around fidelity driven by insecurity, gee, where do I sign up?


  • I’m also declaring April as free cocaine month. All the cocaine you can smoke, snort, boof, inject, or eat, free!

    It won’t solve anything. In April. But come May when we are collectively dealing with the most widespread cocaine hangover ever, we can really take stock of ourselves in a whole new light. The collective shame may be the impetus for.self reflection and real lasting change. Or the legalization of cocaine.

    Win/win really.




  • No one teaches you how to have a relationship. So people just kind of default into patterns that are often toxic.

    It’s why taking a step back and being deliberate about how to communicate is so important. There needs to be a shared understanding and deliberateness about how to intentionally communicate.

    And it needs to be something that applies equally to everyone involved. No copouts, no special circumstances that only go one way, there need to be firm, hard rules with specific consequences that apply evenly to all involved that are arrived at communally, and not unilaterally.