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  • Are you autistic? It can make it difficult to fit in if you’re not registering social archetypes or performing them in ways that help people “get” you in a glance. Sucks but generally people tend to decide how they feel about a person within 30 seconds of meeting them, usually shorter.

    Also, the only thing I’ve learned about Nordic culture is it can be kind of easy to be seen as self centered. Like apparently you generally don’t bring up money or finances casually because it implies things. You know, just little rules that must be easy to trip over. But being an attention-seeker there seems like one of the more transgressive kinds of ways to be perceived. You might be signaling something on accident.