Oh ya, asymmetric relationships are horrible. You did good in stopping it. You will feel much better once you let time heal you.

Good luck brother.

I also have these bouts of depression. They come and go. What works for me is keeping busy. Just doing anything helps me. Just move. Laying in bed is the worst thing to do when that happens. This is my advice to him.

My advice to you is the following: Be there for him. That is all you can do. If you were physically close to each-other, I would suggest to just snuggle/cuddle. Human contact helps. But you are in a long-distance relationship, so that is a no go. Send him voice messages instead of chat? Let him know you like him. Let him know he is important to you. Let him know you are there for him.

Regardless, thank you for caring about him. Compassion, empathy and kindness are the best qualities anyone can have.

I liked watching wrestling just to see all the muscular guys… Also, in school, I crushed on a few guys.

Though when imagining a family, I always pictured myself with a girl. Seeing myself with a guy was just… weird and a little bit uncomfortable. I think that was internalized homophobia. When I imagine a “family” now, I definitely see myself with a boyfriend and not a girlfriend. In fact, I find the opposite now, picturing myself with a girl gives me the “yikes, disgusting”.

The goal of the community seems slightly different. And also the community name itself.

Oh, I did not know about this. What a horrible name, in my opinion… I will keep !wheretopost@lemmy.world as I think it has the better community name.

100% agree that this would be a nice job for AI. I have no idea how to do that though. If anyone wants to create a Bot that does this, please do so and let me know! I will do whatever I need to do on my end, if anything, to allow it on !wheretopost@lemmy.world.

I hope you are doing better OP!

I need to catch up on the latest seasons. I don’t even know where I stopped. But I did so for no good reason, as I did really like the show. They are cute and the show definitely sends a positive message to the world. We need more shows like these.

Statues should be raised for people like him. As to incentivize similar deeds.

In your OP, you clearly say “We’ve been dating for two months;”… Now, you tell me that you are not dating…

You have been dating a woman for two months, yet you never mentioned any of that in any of your previous posts? Sounds weird.

You said “I have been dating” and then “she is not my girlfriend”. What is your definition of dating?

God damn, another lemmy server with a stupid name. s.h.i.t.j.u.st.wor.ks

Moves like these are necessary. To show that there are still people willing to resist and to fight. Becoming complacent would not help in the slightest. Resisting fascism is a necessary requirement. Hopefully this nightclub becomes a safe place for those who need it.

Loving the single life is honestly a super power. Proud of you. Any tips?

I am more lonely nowadays, wishing for more and more interactions, to the point I do stupid shit. But I am learning, it is a process.

And yes, America is going through some shit right now. The world really. The next few years will be… interesting.

I don’t think Trump has the mental faculties left (if he ever had them) to read an article and comprehend what he read. Or to even understand the meaning behind images such as the “Pink Triangle”.

Having said that. Make no mistake, they are coming for all the letters of the LGBTQ+. He is surrounded by homophobic, transphobic, misogynistic people. He is also, most certainly, one of them. You may close your eyes and pretend that it is just the trans that are in danger. It is not. Trans hate will lead to gay hate.

It is a sci-fi book, mixed with (gay) romance. The sci-fi is really well done and so is the romance.

Two reasons:

• It is plastic. It will degrade into microplastics and will end up… in places where it shouldn’t. Water (from cleaning), inside of humans (and other animals) due to drinking water, breathing, etc.
• They are much harder to clean and keep hygienic. They get smelly much faster. They smell worse within a workout and they are hard to clean between workouts.

Buy cotton shirts/shorts. Avoid technical fabric.

Reddit should be sued for removing any mention of “Luigi”. Has he been deemed guilty yet? No, he has not. Pieces of shit.

After all this is said and done, I hope the world remembers all these pieces of shit. Everyone who is bending the knee.

hahah. You saved it though!