• 7 Posts
  • 43 Comments
Joined 1 month ago
cake
Cake day: February 18th, 2025

help-circle
  • wolfinthewoods@lemmy.mltoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldboth pretty extreme
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    3
    arrow-down
    1
    ·
    9 hours ago

    Parenti, in Blackshirt in Reds, covers this topic excellently. He does not gloss over the flaws and corruptions in the USSR, but he is realistic in giving a fair assessment of their successes in the midst of their failures. A big point being what you mentioned above: the USSR had to continue focusing production towards just being on even footing with the US in terms of defense, to protect against the very real threat of the US overthrowing the government as they were doing in so many other communist countries. At no time during the USSR’s existence were they ever not under attack by some outside force or another (the NAZIs, CIA, multi-national capitalist interests etc). Here’s a good quote talking about the Stalin era and progressive policies during that time:

    During the years of Stalin’s reign, the Soviet nation made dramatic gains in literacy, industrial wages, health care, and women’s rights. These accomplishments usually go unmentioned when the Stalinist era is discussed. To say that “socialism didn’t work” is to ignore that it did. In Eastern Europe, Russia, China, Mongolia, North Korea, and Cuba, revolutionary communism created a life for the mass of people that was far better than the wretched existence they had endured under feudal lords, military bosses, foreign colonizers, and Western capitalists. The end result was a dramatic improvement in the living conditions for hundreds of millions of people on a scale never before or since witnessed in history.

    Blackshirts and Reds: Rational Fascism and the Overthrow of Communism by Michael Parenti




  • Thank you. Yes, she really was. I fell in love with her the first day we met. We didn’t get together until almost two years after, but I never questioned that we were meant to be together. I didn’t talk about her passing to anyone for awhile after it happened. I felt like mentioning it was too close to fishing for sympathy, sometimes I still do. But at a certain point I had to say something, I can’t help but feel the immensity of her loss hour after hour, day after day. I appreciate the kind words. I’m definitely in the process of healing, it’s just a very long, and much of the time, lonely process.


  • Eh, I’m still recovering from the holidays. My fiance passed three years ago, and during the holidays I still make it out to see her family. It’s always a bit bittersweet since I love seeing them, but I feel her absence so much more being with them without her. This year was tougher than the other it seemed like because of her grandma telling me how the family has kind of drifted apart since my fiance’s passing. The thing that broke my heart though, was talking with her sister and her telling me that sometimes she can’t remember her very well, that she has a hard time remembering her face. It really shook me to hear that. I cried intensely the whole way home. It’s heartbreaking to see the toll that her loss has taken on all of us. I’m in the process of trying to work through the grief, but it’s the most difficult thing I’ve ever head to do. Just simply accepting the new normal has been a monumental undertaking for me. I’m trying to figure out a life without her, it’s just hard to imagine what that looks like sometimes :'(



  • wolfinthewoods@lemmy.mltoMemes@lemmy.mlI get it
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    11
    ·
    1 day ago

    After the past twenty years, coming of age during the Bush W years, I’ve tried hard to resist becoming a misanthrope. But good, goddamn is it harder than ever before. I thought it was bad (and it was) when W. was the president growing up, but the amount of insane and woefully misinformed and hateful people in this country has reached a fever pitch I never could have imagined back then. It’s truly awesome in the most negative sense of that word.







  • Haha, thanks. I’m surprised there’s someone out there that isn’t even familiar with Rent in passing. My ex was a theater major and she looooved Rent, but even I had heard of it before that. I’m not sure I could survive watching the movie again. I think seeing a stage production of Rent would have been awesome though, especially if I knew someone in the play. I DO dig the overall perspective of it, from what I do remember of watching it years ago.



  • Billy Elliot is one of those films I’d always meant to watch but never seem to finish when I start. I’ll have to seek it out again sometime soon.

    It’s been awhile since I watched Firefly, so I can’t recall the show’s perspective on class, if any. I haven’t seen it in years, so maybe I’ll rewatch it. Although, I liked the show, I didn’t feel as strongly about it’s quality as others commonly do. I wonder if it’s worth a watch for me because of that.

    Comic recommends are always welcome, I’ll take a look at Our Members.

    Thanks for the suggestions ;)




  • For me it was getting into counseling to find the underlying cause of my addiction, which was my grief. There’s many ways addiction is percieved in mainstream society, with the biggest focus being on addiction being a “disease”. I’d avoid such thinking since, I believe, it only serves to exacerbate the problem. If you’re told that your addiction is a irreversable illness than you’ll attack the symptoms without getting to the root cause.

    Ask yourself why you feel the need to drink to excess, what is it that you feel you are missing in your life? We tend to utilize addiction as a way to cope with uncomfortable realities in our lives. If we can figure out what that uncomfortable truth is, we are better equipped to make better, healthier decisions on how we chose to cope with that feeling.

    I recommend checking out any of Lance Dodes’ books on addiction, which focus on a evidence-based approach to confronting and coping with addiction. Good luck. Feel free to DM me if you ever have any more questions ;)



  • Definitely. I try to remember that. I just get stuck in my head the ideal of what I want, and if that ideal doesn’t match what I think I am able to accomplish I just don’t try in the first place. It’s a terrible habit I need to break, especially if I’m going to ever get any decent amount of writing done :|

    I think their perfectionism is pretty well known, or at least their intense work ethic. I was just watching something recently (can’t remember, a docu I believe) that had a segment on Japanese work culture and how the Japanese government had to even force workers to take a vacation because it was eating into their economic activity. The Japanese were working so much that they weren’t spending enough to stimulate their economy creating a downturn. One employer locked the doors and shut the power off at the office, and the workers broke into their own office building and did their work by flashlight and their own wifi hotspots. Crazy.