There are those who transition, so a significant chunk of that male programmer population is “male” as in quotation marks, only that some transition earlier than others. Does not guarantee that you can get the transgender autistic puppygirl (or other variations) of your dreams, since many of them are lesbians.
But also feel free to look outside your field for a partner. It’s okay to date an artist as a programmer.
Feels weird reading this as the only straight single woman programmer in my friend group, and also as the worst one who got a job outside tech for now and likes it enough to possibly stay out of tech, although I feel super guilty for that given tech would make more money. Feel like my CS degree is going to waste
There are those who transition, so a significant chunk of that male programmer population is “male” as in quotation marks, only that some transition earlier than others. Does not guarantee that you can get the transgender autistic puppygirl (or other variations) of your dreams, since many of them are lesbians.
But also feel free to look outside your field for a partner. It’s okay to date an artist as a programmer.
Feels weird reading this as the only straight single woman programmer in my friend group, and also as the worst one who got a job outside tech for now and likes it enough to possibly stay out of tech, although I feel super guilty for that given tech would make more money. Feel like my CS degree is going to waste