How do you “Do as as I say, not as I do”?

  • InfiniteGlitch@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    7 days ago

    “Don’t overthink it” & “worrying won’t solve the problem when you have to wait anyway”.

    I always give that advice. However, I, personally, always overthink and keep worrying.

    • Carighan Maconar@lemmy.world
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      I would agree, but I’m still frantically thinking whether I actually agree and whether I should be expressing that publicly!

    • Today@lemmy.world
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      I’m working on this, though i usually say - I’d rather get bitched at for doing it wrong than for not doing it. At my job it’s to emphasize the stupidity of the task and the lack of training on a shitty system.

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      True that haha

      In practice, I live by “never write any code that’s important enough for anyone to insist on testing it” 😎

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      Oof that his home.

      All I can say is that things can turn it better, it has for me personally.

      It’s great of you that you inspire others, though, not hypocritical, it’s what we all need sometimes. Doesn’t matter if you don’t see it personally, you are helping another human being get along.

    • otp@sh.itjust.works
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      Sometimes it helps to take your own advice, like having a conversation with yourself as if you were another person.

      Other times, there’s a cloud around our heads that stops that from working.

      I hope you find someone to talk to who treats you with the same compassion that you treat others.

      Depending on where you live, someone to talk to is probably a phone call away. Give it a try if that’s an option.

  • ChihuahuaOfDoom@lemmy.world
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    It’s not a problem if it takes you 12 tries and you still haven’t gotten it, do it a 13th. If I don’t do something perfect on the 1st or 2nd try I’ll most likely never do it again.

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      6 days ago

      I get the opposite problem. If I get things nearly perfect on the first try, I’ll just think to myself that I’ll never top that and give up. There’s something satisfying about seeing improvement. In the same vein, seeing results get worse is highly discouraging.

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      5 days ago

      Ohh that was a good one. best one I think.

      Same as having a good backup strategy but didn’t try to restore once.

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    7 days ago

    Try to hit the gym at least 3 times a day week. Daily if you can, even if it just means a light “spa” day.

  • otp@sh.itjust.works
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    Don’t Write Lemmy Posts In Title Case

    Actually, I like capitalizing random nouns, so sometimes I might do that accidentally.

    • chraebsli@programming.dev
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      as a swiss german (we capitalize nouns for those who don’t know), I sometimes automatically capitalize nouns when writing in english, especially when I just wrote something in german. Its a habit and at least for me, its really hard to prevent me doing it.

      Same is for when I wrote mucn in english before, then writing something in german. Then everything is in lowercase.