This time I went to see friends downtown, some I knew more than others. We hung around for a bit, then went to the place of a chick I didn’t know well. Then after a short while everybody left and I was alone with the chick. Clueless virgin me didn’t know what to do with himself. It felt awkwars. We talked a bit, then I left. It must have taken me a full day and night to realize it was a set-up date.
Of course later on the chick wouldn’t have anything to do with me…
This time I went to see friends downtown, some I knew more than others. We hung around for a bit, then went to the place of a chick I didn’t know well. Then after a short while everybody left and I was alone with the chick. Clueless virgin me didn’t know what to do with himself. It felt awkwars. We talked a bit, then I left. It must have taken me a full day and night to realize it was a set-up date. Of course later on the chick wouldn’t have anything to do with me…
Those are the kind of ridiculous mind games that are actually very stressful for a man.
There is such a thing as being mature and open about your wants, needs, desires.