• Throbbing_banjo@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    Adderall, weed, music, a whole lot of time outside, and giving as few fucks as possible.

    Medication eases/fixes most of the function-impeding symptoms, which in turn helps with imposter syndrome, etc. The rest is really just self-care.

    As another user pointed out, though, I also stopped trying to “mask” at all.

    Realize that nobody is “normal” and most people are a lot more fucked up than you realize. Almost every single person you interact with on a daily basis has some kind of bullshit going on that makes their life difficult. Depression, anxiety, addiction, financial problems, relationship problems, health issues, you name it. For the most part, people are far too focused on their own shit to care about anyone else’s.

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    I’m not sure I do cope! What I do know is I don’t think I’ve come across a single ADHD meme that I haven’t seen myself in, but I’ve never been diagnosed lol

  • Valarie@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    Crying in bed for hours then by the time I make it to my therapist forgetting to ask for help with coping skills because I am too focused on making it to therapy on time

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    Postponing could be tackled with sleep deprivation until the body is so stressed that you can focus on the task. But like a joker it works only once and your body feels like shit for half a week.

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      Ah yes, my old frenemy: procrastinate until the anxiety mounts to near-panic, then ride the adrenaline through the hyperfocus tunnel all the way to “job’s done just before it’s too late” Town.

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        Dude just accept it, accept it that it’s ruining your life, accept that you have ADHD, stop fighting it. Started doing that a few years ago and shit still sucks, but at least I’m not stressed about trying to fix it. Because it’s so fucking tiresome trying to adapt to other people’s expectations, you always crash.

        It’s me and my who a I am, embrace the positives with that it gives you, stop trying to compete with people that don’t have it, you fit into a different mold. I would never have the work I have if I didn’t have ADHD, it’s a fucking super power you bafoon

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      Relatable!

      Though I have kids now so I’m permanently exhausted. My brain still has no off switch but falling asleep is easier.

      But that sweet sweet sleep of staying up late until I can’t stay awake any longer. Mmm.

      I ended up working as a sound engineer due to my propensity for staying awake later than most other people!