• Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world
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      3 days ago

      “Sorry” = an attempt to be polite. What’s the better response? Is just a straight “No thanks” going to go over better?

      Genuinely asking, what’s the best way to reject a date offer if, “Sorry, not interested” is the wrong response?

      • iatenine@piefed.social
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        3 days ago

        I wasn’t really being serious but I would say, yes

        Sorry = something has gone wrong

        No thanks = I’m not interested in an offer but also not apologizing for my actions

        Anybody who responds to rejection this way will likely handle it poorly no matter what but don’t frame it as your own failure

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      If you made me some food, and I said: “I’m sorry, but I really do not like the taste of this food.” that would be a polite way of saying to you: “I would rather I did like this food, because I like you as a person. But because of my respect for you, I am being honest. I do not like the food.”

    • explodicle@sh.itjust.works
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      Once I got that exact response from my friend’s hot sister and I believe she honestly meant it. I think she saw the embarrassment on my face. Neither of us wanted to make it any more awkward.