• Flickerby@lemmy.zip
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    2 days ago

    Hey if you dated an 800 lb coward that’s on you.

    Alright, you want me to level with you? I’ll level with you. I’ve been HORRIBLY abused by women. I’m not talking little cigarette burns (though I have those too), I’m talking big ass knife gashes that are still painfully scarred 25 years on. I have been physically, sexually, and mentally abused and tortured for decades. And the only way I choose a bear which equals death over the vague possible CHANCE I could be abused again is if I was suicidal again. This is such a dumb argument. I’m not talking about this anymore.

    • The Quuuuuill@slrpnk.net
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      encountering a bear != spending time with bear

      i’m sorry you went through add that. but the bear is not going to kill you on sight or emotionally manipulate you or rape you, which is what’s being got at. i just ask that you look at those awful experiences of rape culture you had and have some empathy for that it creates a culture of fear that men and women both exist in as they navigate the world, and that makes it to where it’s easier to imagine a scenario you can plan for and deal with than a scenario where you are nervous the entire time.

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      You’re not taking about this anymore because you’ve been proven ridiculously wrong in a comment thread bro

      You’re feelings got hurt

      You’re probably not great with women

      This CUT YOU because “not all men!”

      Self reflect. There’s s reason everyone is saying the same thing to you bro. There’s a reason this makes you angry.

      • Flickerby@lemmy.zip
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        You want me to give you names, asswipe? Dates? You want a fucking picture of my scars? Would that satisfy your shitty fucking curiosity? Here you go fuck wad. You want more? Want me to take off my shirt and you show you all the burns? Go fuck yourself, loser.