• 9point6@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    People know I’m often not timely with message responses

    If they’re not cool with that, they probably self selected out of being my friend

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      3 days ago

      it’s almost as if you should be friends with people who like you, and not friends with people who dislike you or whom you dislike.

      when someone complains about how awful their friends are/make them feel, i ask them why they are friends then, and they usually tell me to go fuck myself. i don’t think i’ve ever dated a woman who actually liked her friends, so much as hated them and just wanted them to be jealous of her.