• JoeBigelow@lemmy.ca
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    2 days ago

    That’s kind of classist ngl, implying that you should only get married if you can afford a two week international vacation?

    Or European, but that’s still holding something over my American, married on a beach by my mother in law, right back to work, no honeymoon no money for gifts no vacation time to take anyway ass.

    But I understand the sentiment, I’d been with my partner 11 years before we got married, we knew how bad it could get without being the Griswalds

    • Poplar?@lemmy.world
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      3 hours ago

      I dont think its classist since they dont suggest it as a precondition youve got to do before marrying, more a thing you can give a go like they prefaced with “if you can afford it”.