Asking this as a Qatari with a polygamous father. My father’s second wife is Swedish and I know it was a tough pill to swallow for her family and friends back home.

  • justsomeguy@lemmy.world
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    9 months ago

    Would you want to share a wife with other men?

    Most instances of middle eastern polygamy have a heavy element of materialism to them. The women mostly agree because it gives them a higher standard of living, not because they like the concept.

    People of Sweden have a relatively high living standard as a baseline so when your father’s second wife decided to do this it was like giving up ‘real’ partnership for some fancy hand bags.

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      9 months ago

      Some people do. If they’re not harming anyone, who the fuck cares what their relationships look like.