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I just found out a very expensive vibrator I’ve had my eye on is on sale. I’m supposed to be saving money but hate to miss out on a bargain
yassss ✨
I have accidentally bought it. Totally accidental!
huzzah! Let the good vibrations begin! 🥳
😜
My cat won’t let me go to bed. She’s been out playing in the spring full moon weather for three days and I was very worried about her, but she’s been feral the first ten years of her life and is only just getting used to being a mostly inside cat, so she can handle herself out there.
I’m so happy she’s home, but she’s crying if I leave the living room (she’s afraid of all other rooms). I gave her extra diner, but she just wants company. Guess I’m sleeping on the couch tonight 🤷♀️
Yep kitty has spoken! Sofa it is
Cat tax:
I’m glad you paid the tax if you didn’t I would have had no choice but to ban you
My new vibrator arrived! Hurrah hurrah
Haha new vibe day is the best day!
Yep it’s charged just need the right inspiration to come along haha
Oh puhlease. Go watch an Angelina Jolie movie ;)
My new vibrator is horribly disappointing cry cry cry 😢
On the plus side I bought at love honey who will exchange a toy within the first 100 days!
Oh no, that’s a bummer! But that exchange policy is very cool, especially because toys can be so expensive.
Yep that’s why I always buy there, you don’t know what it’s like till you test it so a return option is a winner
Haha now there’s an idea
Yesterday my husband and I had dental appointments. We moved last year but wanted to keep our dentist since we both like him so much, but we’re much farther away now and it took us about an hour to get there.
When we walked in the receptionist told us we came a day early. 🤦🏻♀️
You guys, when we got back to our car, I just broke down crying. I never used to make mistakes like this - I’m normally so organized and on top of things - but my brain fog has gotten so bad with peri. It’s so embarrassing. My hubby comforted me, said it was OK and told me not to be so hard on myself, but I felt really awful about wasting his day off. And I just feel like an idiot all the time.
Shit like this keeps happening. The other day I was microwaving something, only to realize that I forgot to put the food in the stupid microwave. I stood in front of the microwave and watched it run and even though I could see inside, it just didn’t register that I hadn’t put anything in there. I keep misplacing things or stopping in mid-sentence because my train of thought disappeared. I keep forgetting to finish tasks.
I have a GYN appointment in a few weeks to talk about HRT because I can’t go on like this.
I think I just needed to vent, thanks for reading.
That’s rough mate. Youve both driven so far, taken so much of the day up and have to do it tomorrow. You’re not being you right now, you’re always organised and on top and this isn’t you. Chronically disorganised people have strategies in place to stop these kind of things, but you’ve never needed to do that.
Peri is rough, and it’s not talked about enough. If women get old enough we go through it but we don’t talk about it. It really is hard.