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NONE@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 7 months ago

Lesbians, Gays and bisexuals, Do you look like someone you would have sex with?

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Lesbians, Gays and bisexuals, Do you look like someone you would have sex with?

NONE@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 7 months ago
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  • CelloMike@lemmy.world
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    My husband and I have been mistaken for brothers before so… Yeah

    • Match!!@pawb.social
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      👀

  • Evkob (they/them)@lemmy.ca
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    I’m super cute, generally a mess, and emotionally unavailable.

    I’m definitely my type.

    • NONE@lemmy.worldOP
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      That’s the attitude!

    • CarbonatedPastaSauce@lemmy.world
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      Pretty sure I dated you for a couple weeks last month.

      • Evkob (they/them)@lemmy.ca
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        I miss you <3

        (Seriously you’re better off without them!)

  • TerranFenrir@lemmy.ca
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    That definitely is the case with me (say in around 70% of cases?).

    I think in my mind, people that are my type = attractive. I want to be attractive. Therefore, my ideal look = the body type I am attracted to. Thankfully, I have almost achieved my ideal “look” or whatever.

    So yeah, I do look like people I have sex with usually.

    • NONE@lemmy.worldOP
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      That is exactly my line of thinking.

  • baduhai@sopuli.xyz
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    Eh, I wouldn’t turn myself down, but I’d certainly not go out of my way to hit on me. I’m not really my type.

  • Walk_blesseD@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Yeah

  • Salt@lemmy.world
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    Absolutely. I don’t have a type, but definitely find myself attractive.

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    No, I like both men and women with dark hair/eyes/complexion and I look the complete opposite. I definitely have a type. Oddly, my brother, though straight, has the same preferences in women and he and I look alike.

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    • NONE@lemmy.worldOP
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      Yeah, right?

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      For many gay men, the “Do I want to date him or be him?” Issue can cut hard, so I’m not sure it’s that weird.

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      • DaniNatrix@leminal.space
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        This has been the defining struggle of my queer existence lol

  • randomname@sh.itjust.works
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    yeah I would find someone like me decently attractive. but I still find myself repulsive when I look in the mirror lmao.

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    Yes lol

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  • kcweller@feddit.nl
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    Fuck yea I’m hot.

    • NONE@lemmy.worldOP
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      On Fire!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥

      • knightly the Sneptaur@pawb.social
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        Ditto~

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    I think I kinda did ten or fifteen years ago, but I’m a bear/dad now and I’m much more into rugged women than rugged men. My taste in men runs twink-ish, usually.

    My wife has aged similarly though, which very much works for me.

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      That’s fair, My taste in men also leans more towards twinks, and currently I look kind of twink-y. But maybe if I keep gaining weight and muscle, while I don’t think I’ll end up looking “bad”, maybe I’ll stop being my type.

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    Not gay but I have sex with my arm regularly

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      Yeah but I’m thinking about someone else’s arm.

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    No. I have a type and I’m not it.

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