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minus-squareotter@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up41·6 months agoThese are all invaluable survival skills, NGL. It’s the resulting FFF hairtrigger readiness that’s fucking hell on the psyche, though.
minus-squareSabata@ani.sociallinkfedilinkarrow-up5·6 months agoNot if I constantly dissociate, self medicate, and avoid people to the point where I literally didn’t process the threat.
minus-squareotter@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up4·6 months agoSounds like processing the threat happened, NGL.
minus-squareSabata@ani.sociallinkfedilinkarrow-up1·6 months agoI may just be stuck on an old one then.
minus-squareotter@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up30·6 months agoFight/Flight/Freeze (though, some even add Fawn to that)
minus-squareotter@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up7·6 months agoYeah, as a survivor of related experiences, finding out the latter two’d been recently added to this alliterative device was, frankly, a coldly epiphanous experience. 😅🤓
minus-squareBrundleFly2077@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up5·6 months agoAh, okay. I thought you were UAPWE. I was right 👍🏻
minus-squareotter@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up4·6 months agoI am neither a writer nor an editor, though I certainly would prefer to be united (much less “international”, for that matter). 😶
These are all invaluable survival skills, NGL.
It’s the resulting FFF hairtrigger readiness that’s fucking hell on the psyche, though.
Not if I constantly dissociate, self medicate, and avoid people to the point where I literally didn’t process the threat.
Sounds like processing the threat happened, NGL.
I may just be stuck on an old one then.
You got this.
What is FFF?
Fight/Flight/Freeze (though, some even add Fawn to that)
Aww, fawn! 🥹
Yeah, as a survivor of related experiences, finding out the latter two’d been recently added to this alliterative device was, frankly, a coldly epiphanous experience. 😅🤓
Ah, okay. I thought you were UAPWE. I was right 👍🏻
I am neither a writer nor an editor, though I certainly would prefer to be united (much less “international”, for that matter). 😶