• DeceasedPassenger@lemmy.world
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    6 months ago

    Fwiw, my mom had a similar debate and decided classical music instead. Came from some company called baby beethoven. So I’m biased but I think music is probably best. Words won’t really be understood anyway just tones. No angry sounds around baby.

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    1. The baby doesn’t understand English (although they can recognise the rhythm and sounds of language).

    2. The mother understands English

    3. The baby experiences the same emotions as the mother.

    In conclusion, read something that will make the mother relaxed and happy. If that happens to be The Cat In The Hat, then great. I read Don Quixote when my wife was pregnant with our first, our second got Moomin and Hairy Maclary (by virtue of being there when I read to the first).

    The most important thing is to keep reading to them, every day, after they’re born too. Buy tons of children’s books (for your own sanity), do the voices and have fun with them.

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    I read to my child every night while they were in the womb and when they came out my reading voice was like drugs it would knock them out so quickly if they were sleepy!

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      baby is inundated with ‘back in my day’, [redacted] ruined everything, complaints about life sucking ass, etc

      9 months pass

      baby pops out

      immediately uses all their strength to jump to the nearest window ledge and yeet

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      The content likely doesn’t matter, but I read it helps the baby recognize the parent’s voices (esp the Dad’s, Momv already gets a lot of time), and it can also help them get a head start on recognizing the phenomes of your language.

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    6 months ago

    Just talk to the baby and play them calm music. The type may matter but what is most important is you interact in some way.

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    I don’t think we’re at that stage. People are still debating whether or not that kid is a kid or not.

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      My wife had a favourite song when she was pregnant and it was very useful for calming after the birth. It was quite a chill tune.

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    It doesn’t matter. A baby doesn’t understand what you read to it. It only hears you voice and regocnizes it once they’re born. But it’llhear your voice in the belly regardless. Every time you say anyyhing, the baby hears your voice. Reading a book to a belly is mostly for the parents-to-be