The boooooooooooooooooooots

That outfit is absolutely fire omg.

Beautiful!

I hate gatekeepers. Best of luck in your next steps Eskee.

Every day I live is a cold revenge against the people who don’t want me alive.

Fucking right. <3.

Congratulations! Thanks for sharing, wishing you a speedy recovery and a sexy chest.

Ugh. Fucking bigots

Lol I had the exact same fear. Proud of you for telling everyone.

Just popping back to say thanks agin, i have no follow ups because you’ve been so incredibly detailed :). I appreciate you.

Hey girl, thank you so much for the detailed reply. I’ll give it a full read tomorrow when I’m not slightly drunk. <3.

Tall girls are hot as fuck.

Hey Dandelion, can I ask you about your Bica experience?

Sorry for the sensitive question, feel completely free to say “pass” or just ignore if you’d rather not answer. Also DM if you’d prefer to answer privately.

Bica is supposed to preserve erectile function better than other anti androgen, which obviously isn’t always desirable but I kindof want that for me. Was that your experience?

Proof that bangs are awesome. Slaay.

If you examine the claim “you don’t seem nonbinary”, it falls apart so quickly. What does a nonbinary person seem like? It’s not some a static third gender, it’s a broad term that includes a lot of folks who present very differently to one another. It’s really a very silly thing to say.

Trans imposter syndrome is real and it affects so many of us. There’s a book that helped me a lot called “Am I Trans Enough?” by Alo Johnston. Basically echoing the others that you’re the only person who gets to decide who you are. This book helped me sit with the questions about my gender identity and really feel my way through them.

You’re feeling the way a lot of us have at some point in our lives. You’re not alone in these feelings I promise. Good luck on your journey.

Incredible work.

When my egg first cracked and I removed my body hair, before any other changes, I was struck with this incredible feeling of “ohhhhh I don’t hate my body, I hate my (assigned) gender”.

Like there’s still a lot I wish was different and the hormones still have a lot of work to do, but seperating out the feeling of gender dysphoria from the rest of the body image stuff was a really powerful feeling.

From DS9 S01E04

Yes! I hate that the world that we live in makes it so fucking unbearable but I do want to be trans. Being trans is good actually. I fucking love trans people and I would never want to live in a world without us.

Cool username. Also slaay.

Yeah you got it. Apparently her character was originally written as a transphobic bit (haha wouldn’t it be funny if the socially awkward guy went on a date and it turned out the date was trans), but I think the actor really took it seriously and the writers consulted with trans advocacy groups and they brought on a trans woman to consult formally and make sure Hayley wasnt just a characature. It wasn’t perfect by any means but it was really interesting to compare with now where a trans person’s inclusion would be considered a pure political statement and the hate machine would immediately spin into overdrive.