

The name adhd is misleading… it’s not a deficit of attention but a a deficit of being able to control where to put the attention.
(btw some adhd researchers from switzerland proposed to rename it to “Unusual Management of Informations and Functions”)
Under the condition that the person has told you their gender (or the pronouns they want you to use for them): yes, then i am agreeing with you
But if you don’t know a person: The gender is not always lining up with their apperance or the appearance can be (sometimes purposely) ambiguous