Why not just hire somebody? Like, I get that it isn’t ideal, but if you’ve gone a quarter century without intimacy and you desire it, it can be obtained with a little cash and a week of research.
I’ve got a funny story about that. We tried to call hookers with the boys, but got some weird dudes saying that they’re gonna fuck us up. A few days later they indeed fucked us up. It’s still a fucking mystery to me how they found us. Anyhow, it’s hard to find anyone to pay here. Best bet are girls that fuck around, but it requires them liking you first and also spending money, and I never really got past the liking part. Maybe it’s different in other places, I dunno.
I did not imply that at all. I said “ if you’ve gone a quarter century without intimacy and you desire it.” So, if 25 years pass and they desire, but are unable to obtain, a sexual encounter, they should simply hire someone rather than kill themselves, as the poster said they were considering.
I’m honestly at a loss for how you interpreted that as me saying they were looking for action as a child.
But honesty, sex is important. I get fucking crazy if I go without it for a long time.
It is different for different people, but saying it is not important to a person who comes in to the Diskussion saying that it is important to them, is kinda mean.
It really isn’t. Obtaining social capital, political engagement, and philosophical discussion is like way better and more important than sex can ever be.
Yeah I’ve been single a few years now and my life is much easier and more streamlined. I don’t miss sex and have plenty of friends. We’re kind of all expected to partner up and have kids and stuff but I just no longer want that.
Brah. Same. Ngl imma just Kurt Cobain when I turn 27 and I’m still a virgin. 3 years left.
Just visit a prostitute. It’s tranactional. You get to choose and you don;t have to pretend to love somebody just to get laid.
Why not just hire somebody? Like, I get that it isn’t ideal, but if you’ve gone a quarter century without intimacy and you desire it, it can be obtained with a little cash and a week of research.
I’ve got a funny story about that. We tried to call hookers with the boys, but got some weird dudes saying that they’re gonna fuck us up. A few days later they indeed fucked us up. It’s still a fucking mystery to me how they found us. Anyhow, it’s hard to find anyone to pay here. Best bet are girls that fuck around, but it requires them liking you first and also spending money, and I never really got past the liking part. Maybe it’s different in other places, I dunno.
Dam that was not a funny story :(
I hope you find some real hookers that aren’t a squad of guys who will jump you.
Aha, thanks Fizz. I’ll try my best 😁
Are you in the US?
Nope, alas
Young children don’t have a drive for sex or intimacy (normally). Esentially (almost) everybody is aroace until puberty.
This person isn’t a child, they’re 24.
You said “quarter of a century”, implying they’re wanting it since their birth.
I did not imply that at all. I said “ if you’ve gone a quarter century without intimacy and you desire it.” So, if 25 years pass and they desire, but are unable to obtain, a sexual encounter, they should simply hire someone rather than kill themselves, as the poster said they were considering.
I’m honestly at a loss for how you interpreted that as me saying they were looking for action as a child.
Your gonna get assassinated by music industry goons when you turn 27?
Okay my bad, imma Ronnie McNutt. Hope that’s more understandable
Nah, I’m mostly kidding. There are some conspiracy theories about his death though and I kinda wanted to say them out loud.
Sex is not that important man
That’s rich coming from someone who fucks sharks.
But honesty, sex is important. I get fucking crazy if I go without it for a long time.
It is different for different people, but saying it is not important to a person who comes in to the Diskussion saying that it is important to them, is kinda mean.
Nono, don’t get me wrong. Sex can be important. However, I do not think it is ever worth your life
It really isn’t. Obtaining social capital, political engagement, and philosophical discussion is like way better and more important than sex can ever be.
Yeah I’ve been single a few years now and my life is much easier and more streamlined. I don’t miss sex and have plenty of friends. We’re kind of all expected to partner up and have kids and stuff but I just no longer want that.
Long term virginity is sort of proof that you aren’t likeable enough for someone to have sex with you.
It can be a bit of a downer when you realize that.
So no, it is important. But it is also important to not give up.
Took me til my thirties, and it gave me a confidence boost once it happened. Had to work on myself to make it happen.
Yuuuuup. Not letting your sex drive prevent you from seeing someone as the person they are is a big deal too.
Sex is temporary, Cthulhu is eternal!
sex isn’t temporary if you do it every day :D
sex is forever if you’re both horny enough!
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It is.
It’s not, and it won’t solve any of your issues or fix your self esteem.
Oh it will. It will solve my absolutely bonkers sex drive that drives me insane.
It won’t.
“sex won’t solve your sex drive” sure buddy.
Says the guy who hasn’t had sex.
That’s the only logical fucking thing - you wanna fuck, you have sex, you feel good. How fuck the won’t that solve anything??
I agree, but also, uh… hey, how you doin’?
Your wife will kill you for your inheritance?
I mean Ronnie McNutt style, I didn’t know much about Kurt lore my bad