• afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    I was about 11 or so and acting out, my teacher said my name. I just froze for a moment and it dawned on me that was the first time he had said my name all day. Completely invisible unless I was doing something wrong. Just a square shape in a square hole unless I choose otherwise and if I do it by making my life worse.

    I guess it doesn’t sound profound. Every guy knows this on some level but it really knocked the wind out of me at the time.

    • neidu2@feddit.nl
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      11 months ago

      Similar experience. Got in a bad accident when I was 15, entirely my own doing. That’s when I learned that some mistakes and their injuries are permanent.

  • forty2@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    Say what you mean; mean what you say.

    No idea where I heard or read it, but preteen me internalized it and it’s become part of my creed to this day

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      11 months ago

      Actually as a kid I realized that what I was taught in the bible and church were metaphors and not things to be taken literally. I mean, a lot of it went against what we learned in school, and school actually made sense.

      Only much later in my teens did I realize that many Christians do take the Bible literally. It was then that I decided to completely abandon my religion.

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      11 months ago

      Yes, and now, anytime I’m trying to get to know someone better, I’m strategizing as to what childish/dirty joke or well placed cuss word will break through the “fake wall” and allow me to really know this person.

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    11 months ago

    I can learn everything I need to know about how to be a decent person from cartoons.

    Cartoons have always shown me that being a friendly person, who is honest, do right by their friends and tries to do the right thing will guide me well through life. I needed to weed through the friends a little bit but that has held true thus far