Hard to say. I’m bi and I had an undercover boyfriend when I was 12 or 13. Although neither of us really called it that it, it’s pretty clear that’s what it was in restrospect. Then growing up in the environment that I did, I stayed closeted until I was in my 30s and married.
Somehow even though I didn’t admit it to myself for most of that time, it still didn’t keep me from enjoying guys in porn, so IDK what kind of cognitive dissonance I had going there.
Hard to say. I’m bi and I had an undercover boyfriend when I was 12 or 13. Although neither of us really called it that it, it’s pretty clear that’s what it was in restrospect. Then growing up in the environment that I did, I stayed closeted until I was in my 30s and married.
Somehow even though I didn’t admit it to myself for most of that time, it still didn’t keep me from enjoying guys in porn, so IDK what kind of cognitive dissonance I had going there.