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With a shurg and walk away.
It only matters when someone wants to make their dislike of you your problem.
I competed in roller derby with a guy who told me to my face he didn’t like me, but he was respectful and never withheld coaching, scrimmaged with me and was a good teammate, and we otherwise just stayed out of each others’ space. We just didn’t have personalities that meshed.
It was no big deal.
This is the most constructive situation
I don’t think it occurs to many people that you can dislike someone and also not actively be a jerk to them.
It happens all of the time in professional environments.
Then we have something in common
“I don’t need you to.”
^ Best Reply.
Simple,
Isn’t petty. Doesn’t explicitly say you don’t like them.
Shows confidence that their opinion isn’t important to you if they are that immature.
If they were mature, they would have explained what their beef is, and not a vague ‘don’t like you’ kind of response.
If they can’t articulate what you said or action you took that makes them not like you. They aren’t worth your time.
“I don’t think about you at all”
Depends on the context.
Someone in a romantic relationship? Emotional wreck, even if they just said it out of anger.
A trusted friend? Most likely take some time to think about my personal choices.
Some random person I’ve never met, or who I dislike? Wouldn’t care one bit unless they gave a reason why and they were right.
A: “Must be doing something right then.”
B: “Oh no! Anyway…”
C: “That’s nice. I’m thinking chicken for dinner.”
D: “Did you say something?”
E: All of the above
Thanks mom
“Sounds like a personal problem.”
“Same.”
“something we have in common”
“You’re wrong. I’m very likable.”
And then proceed to stare them down.
