Just came across this question on reddit and tbh…i don’t know

People have always told me(including my parents) that i am very antisocial, i don’t know how to speak, i don’t smile often, i’m shy, i look very judgemental or i’m just too egotistic…so i don’t know if i’m actually someone worth hanging out with

And no i didn’t make all these things up i have heard it all my life from my parents, teachers, friends etc.

I don’t know if its just my luck or something about my looks or the way i speak but people don’t really hold back against me

So what about y’all?

  • NocturnalMorning@lemmy.world
    3·
    6 months ago

    Depends on the day. Sometimes im fun, sometimes im not so fun. Like anybody, I have days where im in a decent mood, got plenty of sleep, and then other days, I slept like crap, im cranky, and im just trying to keep my head down and get through the day.

  • quediuspayu@lemmy.world
    11·
    6 months ago

    Probably yes, I talk to myself all the time and my sense of humour happens to be pretty similar to mine. At the very least is worth a try.

    • 200ok@lemmy.world
      2·
      6 months ago

      Agreed! We both like the same shows… never fighting about what to have for dinner… it’s great

  • thisisdee@lemmy.worldEnglish
    4·
    6 months ago

    I wouldn’t initiate or invite, but if I just happen to be in the same room with myself it would be fine. It would be mostly quiet and we do our own thing, or the occasional silly philosophical or metaphorical discussions but probably nothing real or deep. Or maybe it’ll be a free therapy session, having 2 brains figure out my emotions

  • Angry_Autist@lemmy.world
    5·
    6 months ago

    I have met a person nearly exactly like me, and they make a great friend

    So yes, I’d love to hang out with me, at least I’ll finally have someone that doesn’t keep deliberately misunderstanding my words to have an excuse to harass me

  • bizarroland@fedia.io
    2·
    6 months ago

    Yeah. I do cool shit all the time.

    Wanna come over and have a fire in the backyard and do a barbecue, drink a few beers, play some games, watch some movies, play some music, record an album, build some shit in the garage, work on cars, write stories, play with electronics, do some computer shit, like, what’s your flavor, pick your poison, I’m down for fucking anything, and if I had another me to do it with, all the fucking better.

  • Maeve@kbin.earth
    1·
    6 months ago

    Yes, I am. I’m also able to hang out with others, but because I don’t hold red state views, I have to limit it for my own well-being.

  • GreenKnight23@lemmy.world
    4·
    6 months ago

    I would love to hangout with myself. I’m quiet, calm, and introspective IRL.

    I don’t have any friends because I’m disappointed in people my own age. I’d hang out with people 20-30 years older than me, but they’re all dead soooo…

  • unicornBro@sh.itjust.works
    11·
    6 months ago

    I would hang out with myself and get a lot done. We’d code an app, make a podcast for antisocial people, and plant trees.

    We’d agree to use the same encrypted messenger.

    I’ve never been good at socializing and it just makes me exhausted.

    • pinball_wizard@lemmy.zip
      7·
      6 months ago

      We’d agree to use the same encrypted messenger.

      You’ve revealed the real reason we need cloning technology. It would be glorious.

  • hedge_lord@lemmy.worldEnglish
    1·
    6 months ago

    I have difficulty expressing myself around unfamiliar people. I would hang out with myself because I know myself very well. If I did not know the other me and she did not know me, then we’d probably both assume that the other thinks we’re trash and would not hang out. But if we did then we’d enjoy it.

  • Pissmidget@lemmy.world
    1·
    6 months ago

    God no, I have a hard enough time hanging out when I’m present, I don’t need another me ruining the ambiance.