cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/30147790
does anybody else go casually chat, go on a few dates, learn everything about each other go, show each other our favorite shows, binge then together, have tons of unprotected sex, learn new kinks, act like a married couple for a few months, then slowly fall out of love, start having poor communication and broken routines, paranoia and self insecurity sabotaging every opportunity to fix it, then just stop talking and become strangers, no, just me? okay. I’m fine.
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🫠 im so in
You had me in the first half
Why the fuck would you out me like this
ain’t got any plans for the day, hit me up
Pass. We could be friends, though.
So, a dumpster fire, but 10 years later?
Are the humans okay?
Newp!
are you me?
Reminds me of comedian, James Acaster saying that dating is just learning more about a person and slowly realizing that you don’t like them as much as you hoped you would.
“I should have warned you, some of the jokes are sad.”
Sounds good! 🥰 good new experiences
Well… ‘Good’.
😞
Is this the BPD flag?
Looking forward to better diagnostic tools for Relational 'TSDs than sorting pink blankets into Borderline and blue blankets into anger issues/not needing healthcare. The academics are working but we’ll have to chemo the fascism to get grant money going to human services again lol
As someone who had a few contradictory opininions from different doctors, one of which being BPD, it does sound a bit like something similar to what I sometimes experience, both easily getting to obsess over someone and to “forget” and to have to force myself to care later
I would recommend professional help to OP, even tho I am somewhat skeptical of psychiatry myself (in the “its a new science and not rigorously measurable way”). It’s not your friend’s/partner’s/etc. job to fix ya, and I myself ended up wanting to punish people for caring about me, that shit can break ya really suddenly, don’t ignore early signs
That was my exact thought. Just the comprehensiveness of the pattern lol.
no
Fuck it.
Sounds fun.
I’m not sure about the unprotected sex
If you’re exclusive and both have no STDs, why not?
if you’re both cis, surprise baby
Oh right, straight sex. Duh. I suppose there are reversible surgical options to prevent conception, but I imagine most people don’t do that. Completely slipped my mind that sex can result in children because of how that has never affected me, despite my wife and I joking about trying to get each other pregnant all the time.
