While I believe that everyone experiences changing themselves to better fit a societal expectation to some level, I think posts like this are trying to highlight the fact that queer people change their entire being to be able to fit in to a world that expects them to be completely different to who they truly are. This post could be about any sort of minority trauma, not just queer people, but I would guess that the author is queer and writing from experience. I could easily see this being written by a neurodivergent person about their experience with growing up too.












I’m an American living in Canada. Black Friday happens here and it’s really weird to me. In the USA, it happens the day after Thanksgiving, which always falls on a Thursday. So Black Friday makes sense because many people have Friday off (or take it off) and so they have a day to shop for the upcoming holiday season.
In Canada, Thanksgiving does not happen on the same day as in the USA. It happens on a Monday in October. But Black Friday still happens the day after American thanksgiving, which is basically just a random Friday in November for Canadians.
The only thing I will mention is that I don’t know of any Canadian who lines up outside stores for them to open so they can snatch a crappy deal on a TV. I’m sure it happens, but I think most Canadians just need to go to work.