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    I understand greentexts are misogynistic by nature, but wtf is wrong with this entire fucking website that this shit is what pops up first. The entire “joke” hinges on the idea that that woman’s entire worth is tied into being pretty. This is not even casual sexism, that’s ranked competitive sexism.

    Also going by the comments some advanced morons here seem to unironically think that is actually how it works. Per twitch’s own leaked financials pokimane did not make more money than her male counterparts (who no-one ever accused of abusing their pretty privilege). But she’s a woman so of course her merit has to be scrutinized and her success has to be attributed to men. I suppose the idea that she has a large female audience has never even crossed the minds of the quadruple-chinned gremlins who upvote this garbage.

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      I think that at least 7 people didn’t understand what you were trying to say.

      I did. Well said. I can’t see any problems with your argument.

      Though, I think that maybe the green text was more about female streamers in general, not just the one that’s depicted.

      Whichever. Be well.

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      You realize that’s how the world works?

      Men or women, people are primarily judged for their physical attraction.

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        I’ve never had anyone suggest the success I had in life was in any way related to someone wanting my dick in them no.

        You’re making it sound like this post is discussing pretty privilege. It’s not. It’s making a crass, misogynistic “joke” which hinges on the false implication that a woman is doing sex work for her success. But you already knew that and are just pretending otherwise. And if you think that misogyny is acceptable because it’s “how the world works”, I would not-so-kindly ask you to fuck right back off to 4chan or the fox news comment section or wherever else you incels congregate these days.

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      I think you’re missing some cultural context where 80% of twitch streams by women are just softcore porn. It became much more diverse and acceptable now but soft sex workers were huge on Twitch without even doing much of actual sex work.

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        I have been on twitch before sex workers even got a foot in the door. If you think that’s what “80%” of twitch is about then you either don’t watch or are telling on yourself.

        Anyway whatever you think of sex work is literally irrelevant to the conversation. The woman pictured is not a sex worker and implying that she is for the sake of an incel joke because “she’s pretty, that’s close enough to sex work for me” is misogyny and you need to take a long hard look at yourself.

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        I mean yeah but pokimane isn’t one. Also I’d really hesitate to go anywhere near as high as 80%

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      It is also wild how some people here think everything you do in life is for the soul purpose of “procreation.” Like there is nothing more to life than the shallowness of sex for some people.

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      The entire “joke” hinges on the idea that that woman’s entire worth is tied into being pretty.

      Uhh no, the joke is that a lot of men see women as objects and will watch her streams solely on the fact that she is a woman that they desire to bang. But yea, no matter what lens you look at it, it’s patriarchy all the way down. I think watching and developing parasocial relationships with streamers, male or female, is pretty fuckin weird anyway.

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        That’s a very charitable interpretation. Anon is a literal incel, he made a sexist joke, and I really don’t think he (or you) has ever watched one of pokimane’s streams because they’re aggressively non-sexual. There are plenty of actual sex workers on twitch if that’s your thing.

        Has pokimane had her share of weirdos over the years? Sure, but it’s really not that many people in absolute numbers and spreading naked incel propaganda is really fucking icky to me. Incel jokes aren’t okay even if it’s “humor”. It normalizes this extreme misogyny, even if you say “it’s okay we’re laughing at anon”.

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        I think watching and developing parasocial relationships with streamers, male or female, is pretty fuckin weird anyway.

        It is weird in an understanble way. Homo sapiens is a pack animal. For most of our 300k years of history, we survived by forming tribes and being connected to each other. This is why rejection sucks at any context, be it romanic or employment or friendship.

        Today, we are more alone and isolated than any time in history. It’s understandable some lonely people are desperate enough to hang onto some simulacrum of connection.

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    Wait, are you implying that I’m sexually attracted to Josh from Let’s game it out!?

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      As someone that works in software, what he does to turn running code inside out, is kinda sexy. The guy is like a bloodhound for bugs and poorly-built software.

      Game developers: Yeah, buy our game and play it however you want. It’s all for fun!

      Josh: ::proceeds to out-QA the publisher’s QA department, breaking the game in the most egregious ways imaginable::

      Game developers: No, not like that!

      Speedrunners:: ::furious note-taking sounds::

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    I’ve no difficulty understanding lads being thirsty and attracted by a lovely lady who appears to be into gaming and hey, you can even interact and try to get her attention!

    Now, explain to me lads getting super invested in some lads running around a field chasing a ball. Like, literally having their lives revolve around it, their identity entirely centered on it. Now that’s a complete mystery to me.

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      Most of the time it’s the social aspect that is infectious. It gives you something in common with other fans that would otherwise be strangers to you

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        Aye, like wearing a cool metal shirt and getting the horns from a complete stranger. We do like our tribe(s), don’t we?

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          As long as we get to pick our tribes, realize that it is all good-spirited tribalism and banter, and are able to tolerate if people pick a different tribe, I’m cool with it. Hell yeah, brother 🤘

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        I never understood sports fans until walking around Key West with my Navy buddy who wore a hat for the Browns. Random dudes kept cracking jokes at and/or with him the whole day. Still ain’t enough to get me into the cult, but I get the appeal now.

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      its like joining a cult, you swap your weaker identity with the stronger cult identity

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      As someone who was born into the ball chasing cult, there are three things:

      1. The social aspect. It’s the one thing that brings my family together, each week, to watch the game. For away games, you have a cookout with some family friends, buy some drinks and then you watch the game. If it’s in the evening, then you go out afterwards. For home games, you gather the same group, but now you’re gonna meet more people in the arena, people you know because they’re also in the cult. You have a drink, you have a laugh and you catch up with them. Our team is a second division side with some okay players and a great goalie, so the game is almost relegated (heh) to play second fiddle.

      Oh and don’t get me started on the choreos.

      1. Hometown pride: This team has been here since the 19th century and for me, going to the games or even having just a passing interest in the team is part of being from that town.

      You tag lamp posts in your town with their stickers and you do the same in the surrounding smaller cities. By looking at the stickers in any given town, you can see to which city their youth gravitates, which tickles my brain in ways I can’t explain.

      1. It’s fun to watch: Arguably the weakest reason, but God damn, sometimes even second division footy just looks so good! When you see someone pull off a sick trick or make a clean tackle or catch, you get that sweet dopamine kick, it’s insane.

      I’d never beat someone because of their allegiance. Those people can kick rocks.

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        Hometown pride

        Do you also refer to your city’s sport team using “we”, “us”, and “our”? I’ve always found that weird, because while I’m a fan, I don’t consider myself being a part of what the team accomplishes. I’m just a spectator. I just refer to them as the team name.

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          I have pretty deep roots within the city, and I could not imagine not rooting for my team (within limits, I wouldn’t tolerate bigotry, but as of now, they behaved pretty good on that front), so yeah, I use “wir” and “uns” :)

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        Fair-play to you for a thoughtful answer. Much appreciated and it certainly matches my personal experience.
        As I said somewhere else : seeing my mates being all up in arms about ManU when they live in fecking Donegal was always funny to me, but I totally see the social aspect.
        So much banter at the pub! If there is a thing the Irish love, it’s a good banter.

        Shame about the assholes who use it as an excuse to get into fights. Fecking idiots the lot of them.

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          Thanks for the kind words, I really have to take every excuse to practice writing in English ^^

          Yeah, I definitely forgot about the banter and storylines.

          I think what contributes the most to the sports ball hype is that a lot of people play sports ball themselves. And just like gamers watching streams of people playing the games they want to play or are playing, ball cultists wanna see guys do the shit they do on some backwater pitch. You know, for the “damn, I know that’s difficult” or the “I could do it better” - factor.

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            Man, the “damn, I know that’s difficult” is strong in every sport. I can appreciate a sport so much more if I did it myself, even just a few months. Fencing? No idea, people waving some sticks around. Soccer football? Sick volley shot, man, I saw a mate to the same thing back in 2006…

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              Yeah, I think it’s also “I saw like 10 of my mates shit the bed trying to do that”.

              Thanks for avoiding the s-word btw ^^

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        I appreciate the summary and I think i get why people like sports ball… but I really enjoy having a sports ball free space to talk about how absurd it is the way our society obsesses over it. on the internet, you’re the weirdo, not me!

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        That is a magnificently executed thought-terminating cliché, but if I may offer a rebuttal: nuh-uh!

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        Hey, no hate on people loving sports!

        My point was it’s super clear why a teenager wants to thirst on a pretty woman playing vidya.

        Now, my irish mates all having their club and being all very serious about it, when they’ll curse the English in the same sentence has always been hilarious to me.
        And I’m talking people from fecking Donegal, who lived through the Troubles and shit. Never understood that one.

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          It’s cool.

          I’ve never really understood it either to be honest. I’ve gravitated to solo sports and more admiration at the ability than the winning per se.

          I’m from Manchester, UK, so been around a lot of Irish people. Had a lovely time in Port-Stewert once. (Port-Stewart?) At the same time I’ve put countless hours into Minecraft, Factorio, Running, or climbing and people wonder why.

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      On the contrary, I think baseball obsession is more ‘grounded’. There’s no illusion that the players are your personal friends, they are a team and the social part is cheering them on with fellow fans.

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      I actually understood sports fandom for the first time because of watching streamers play video games. I was like ooooohhh, this is a very challenging skill, and I’m watching someone do it very very well, and I’m fucking hyped and I want to see more.

      I never in my life had that for basketball or anything. But it made sense when I saw it for video games.

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      Holy fuck I wish lemmy gold was a thing i could give you. Sport fans always seemed like cultists to me.

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      Practicing masculinity, delighting in skilled human action, and bonding with peers.

      Not my thing, but I get it.

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      The male ball chase cult is not even into women’s sports. I always found contradictory that the crowd that qualifies itself as the manliest and straightest, enjoys looking at sweaty males that grop each other celebrating scoring. The whole thing reeks of suppressed sexuality.

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    I found out that some female streaming voices give me some asmr. And overall can be more pleasant to hear. And less prone to have “youtube accent”. I take that as a win.

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      Holy shit, is “YouTube accent” that weird, half broken English baby voice to sound like an anime girl?

      Every WoW guild I’ve been in has one.

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      I don’t watch Twitch but the youngin’s in my family do.

      Female streamers don’t have that fake obnoxious rage yell/scream the guys do.

      Last streamer I watched by choice was Skyrim Grandma BTW.

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        The only “streaming” I can watch are Game Grumps, but I get that’s not live, and it’s by and for a completely different demographic.

        I’ve tried, but I find a lot of Twitch play-throughs to be low-stimulation, low-information, and low-entertainment. I think they’re better suited to a dual-screen kind of situation, but then I’d rather be doing far more engaging things like playing games myself.

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            I miss it too. If I had to guess, Arin sees a day with wall-to-wall recording sessions and meetings, and misses those chaotic early days.

            I look at it this way: it’s a lot less home-grown now that it’s grown up. In exchange, they employ people, make Starbomb tours actually possible, and fund wildly off-the-wall games. Along the way, Dan was propelled into modest stardom, a lot of other folks from their camp got a boost for their endeavors, and they got to make some memorable moments with a few celebs. They’re not at “Liquid Game Grumps” levels yet, but it’s amazing to watch unfold. Maybe that’s worth it.

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              Completely agree. Just missing the good old days of being able to make whatever joke/comment they found funny, advertisers be damned

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        Female streamers don’t have that fake obnoxious rage yell/scream the guys do.

        Eh, guys with the fake rage scream are about as common as the ladies who see Twitch as essentially a starter camsite/way to advertise their OF and are trading on boobs more than anything else. There absolutely are streamers on Twitch that are exactly what OP suggests, but they’re far from a majority and probably not the one used in the picture.

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    Humanity on the balance seems to like to act shocked and even disgusted when anything like this and countless other similar scenarios occur. Often they ask why but they know why. Procreation. So much of our behaviour has undertones of procreation whether we acknowledge this or not. I find those who acknowledge deal with the less ethical parts of procreation much better than those constantly in denial.

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    Isn’t that Pokimane? She’s ranked in League. Cute women can do great things. If you sexualize it maybe you’re a creep. Go watch her play.

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        Not really, you can play league entirely unranked though the matchmaking will still try to put you in similar skill matches. So you will get an ELO/MMR but that’s not a rank anyone sees.

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        Ranked, meaning above a certain rank making you one of the top tier players.

        You can be ranked as a bronze sure. But no one goes around saying I’m ranked bronze. Means you’re trash.

        According to Google she’s Emerald+ (I have no idea what this means as I never played LoL. She apparently reached immortal status which makes her the top 0.5% of players.

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          Emerald+ is somewhere around the 93rd percentile. So she’s definitely good, (better than over 90% of players), but not as good as the true Diamond/master/grandmaster players.

          A lot of those grandmaster-level players don’t even have their face on stream; They’ll just silently stream with a camera on their keyboard, because the people watching them want to see their inputs just as much as they want to see the the match. When it comes to streaming, there’s a golden triangle of “Looks”, “Charisma” and “Skill”. In order to be a good streamer, you need at least two. But those grandmaster players are so insanely skilled that they’re able to ignore the other two completely.

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            I feel like the mechanics of the isekai world have just been narrated and I’m about to binge 4hrs of B-tier slop.

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    Shrieking into the void is my favourite pastime, I don’t even watch the stream, I pause it and concentrate on the chat. I’ve never once been tagged or responded to after thousands of messages, and have macro keybinds for every emote available so I can post :Kappa: and :Omegalul: as fast as possible.

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    You see, the steamer depicted may not be the exact subject matter they’re referring to. They might have just googled female streamers, or loaded up Twitch and looked for the first girl on camera and snapped a screen shot.

    With all that being said, I understand the appeal of wanting to watch something that you think is pretty. Hell, that’s the entire reason I played cyberpunk as a female character despite being very cis, and male.

    For 90% of game play my gender doesn’t matter. Until cutscenes where I get to watch my avatar interacting with others.

    Outside of cutscenes, I’m looking first person, so what difference does it make?

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      Obviously women have long hair, and that can get in the way, making it harder to see. You don’t want hair in your face when you got to fit that piece through the side precisely, making a last second rotation to fit lest you end up with a hole on your stack

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        Oh, and don’t forget that video game women tend to have worse upper body strength than video game men so if you’re intending to vault, climb and break things you should be a dude /s

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      With all that being said, I understand the appeal of wanting to watch something that you think is pretty. Hell, that’s the entire reason I played cyberpunk as a female character despite being very cis, and male.

      2077’s female VA is incredible. She sounds so much more ‘real’ than clips of the male VA I heard, and the bit of rasp is utterly perfect for the setting.

      Same with Kassandra, Femshep, and (I think) FemRyder.

      Basically I’ve been trained into assuming the female VA is going to deliver a better performance.

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    Male Loneliness Epidemic is mostly just broke teenagers trapped in the suburbs who haven’t figured out their girl peers are just as lonely, broke, and horny as they are.

    As soon as they crack the code, they’re at it like jackrabbits

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    I’m sure horniness is a factor, but there is also the aesthetic allure of the adorable. Like I can look at cat pics for hours. Doesn’t mean cats make me hot.

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      but there is also the aesthetic allure of the adorable

      yep

      i think it’s like this:

      men walk around aimlessly until they find something they like (woman). that calms them down and they stop wandering around. that’s the “appeal of the adorable” or sth.

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      Sexual attraction and frustration, sure. Also loneliness, loss of community, loss of purpose, loss of meaning.

      Maybe not every guy who watches her is like that, but some definitely are. I would especially be concerned for those who watch her consistently and donate large amounts of money to her. But I feel the same way about anyone who watches a lot of streamers and donates a lot of money (relative to their own income of course).

      Parasocial relationships are a deeply concerning development.

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        Parasocial relationships are a deeply concerning development.

        I agree. I’m not sure how anyone who has a healthy sense of self-respect can develop this sort of relationship, tbh. Even wading into the sometimes toxic peergroup of fandoms is better, because at least you’re communicating back and forth rather than just imbibing this quasi-social runoff that’s not even directed towards you as a person.